LOVE BUGGED… Symptoms of Falling in Love

           Another day passed.  I promised myself that I’ll sleep early tonight because I’ve been losing sleep for days now.  It seem like I’m going to break that promise again, because I can’t seem to stop writing for my blog.  (Darn, I have no idea Blogging can be addictive: P)

         

       My friend and I had a chat on Facebook about her “annoying” suitor.  She asked me for some advice on how to deal with such annoyance.  I told her that it is normal for a guy to act like that because he’s been contaminated with the "Love Bug"  I told her to just be nice and civil to the guy.  I told her that if she can’t deal with him that way, its better to tell the guy what she really feels for him.  Honesty is the best advice I can offer. 

          Falling in love with someone is an exciting, wonderful experience.  It may also be a bit confusing. If you are unfamiliar with this experience, you might even find yourself asking why you feel such thing, to the point that you don't even understand what is happening with you.  Sometimes, you are not even aware when it happens. If you know the signs of being in love, it will help relieve your confusion and understand your inner feelings.

         Honestly, I only felt the “Love Bug” syndrome twice… The first one didn’t even last long enough for me to reminisce about it… Weird... Maybe because I wasn’t sure that time if I was really in love.  The second time I felt the “Love Sickness” was extreme.  At that time I was very sure I was In Love, because I have all the symptoms, I was blinded.  The feeling was beyond explanation, I ended up marrying the guy, and the rest is history.  As of now, I am in a state where I’m not sure about what I'm feeling towards someone I consider special.  Last night the beautiful sight of the moon in the sky inspired me to write a poem for him.  Read on =)  

Letter to my Moon

Dear Moon,

There you go again shining proud and bright.

Yellow silver glistening so brightly

You seem happier every time I see you,

I can’t help but be fascinated by your light. 

Without effort, you pull me towards you.

My eyes see only nothing but you.

You seem so near yet so far. 

I can only admire you from a distance, 

and wish for your light to shine on me.

But you are the moon… my moon.

You are created to be up there… and I, down here.

I will forever be inspired by you… swept away by you…

I’ll use your light to guide my way to your direction,

I’ll use your light to create a sparkle of my own… A “Star” Light

And when I’m done, I’ll find my way up there where you belong...

You are still my moon… but this time, you’ll have a star beside you,

And that’s me…

           Sometimes we tend to get confused identifying what we really feel towards someone.  We can’t seem to differentiate the feeling of Love from that of Infatuation.  Here is a video that I find helpful in identifying the “Love Bug” symptoms.  Enjoy =)

          Hope you enjoyed the 1^st part of my Blog for the topic “Love Bugged”.  The 2^nd part will be about the Love Stages.  I’m starting on that one already.  

          

          Have a “LoVeLy” day everyone!